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It very commonly happens that fpeculation has no influence on conduct. Juft conclufions, and cogent arguments, formed by laborious ftudy, and diligent enquiry, are often repofited in the treafuries of memory, as gold in the mifer's cheft, useless alike to others and himfelf. As fome are not richer for the extent of their poffeffions, others are not wifer for the multitude of their ideas,

You have truly described the state of human beings, but it may be doubted whether you have accommodated your precepts to your defcription; whether you have not generally confidered your readers as influenced by the tragick paffions, and fufceptible of pain or pleafure only from powerful agents, and from great events.

To an author who writes not for the improvement of a fingle art, or the eftablishment of a controverted doctrine, but equally intends the advantage, and equally courts the perufal of all the claffes of mankind, nothing can justly Leem unworthy of regard, by which the pleasure of converfation may be increased, and the daily fatisfactions of familiar life fecured from interruption and disgust.

For this reafon you would not have injured your reputation, if you had fometimes defcended to the minuter duties of focial beings, and enforced the obfervance of thofe little civilities and ceremonious delicacies, which, inconfiderable as they may appear to the man of fcience, and difficult as they may prove to be detailed with dignity, yet contribute to the regulation of the world, by facilitating the intercourfe between one man and another, and of which the French have fufficiently teftified their efteem, by terming the knowledge and practice of them Sçavoir vivre-the art of living.

Politeness is one of thofe advantages which we never eftimate rightly but by the inconvenience of it's lofs. It's influence upon the manners is conftant and uniform, fo that, like an equal motion, it escapes perception. The circumftances of every action are fo adjusted to each other, that we do not fee where any error could have been committed, and rather acquiefce in it's propriety, than admire it's exactnefs.

But as fickness fhews us the value of eafe, a little familiarity with those who were never taught to endeavour the gra,

tification of others, but regulate their behaviour merely by their own will, will foon evince the neceffity of established modes and formalities to the happiness and quiet of common life.

Wisdom and virtue are by no means fufficient, without the fupplemental laws of good-breeding, to fecure freedom from degenerating to rudeness, or selfefteem from fwelling into infolence; a thousand incivilities may be committed, and a thousand offices neglected, without any remorfe of confcience, or reproach from reafon.

The true effect of genuine politeness feems to be rather eafe than pleasure. The power of delighting must be conferred by nature, and cannot be deliver. ed by precept, or obtained by imitation; but though it be the privilege of a very fmall number to ravish and to charm, every man may hope by rules and caution not to give pain, and may therefore, by the help of good-breeding, enjoy the kindness of mankind, though he Ahould have no claim to higher diftinctions.

The univerfal axiom in which all complaifance is included, and from which flow all the formalities which cuftom has established in civilized nations, is, That no man should give any prefe rence to himself. A rule fo comprehenfive and certain, that, perhaps, it is not eafy for the mind to image an incivility, without fuppofing it to be broken.

There are, indeed, in every place, fome particular modes of the ceremonial part of good-breeding, which, being arbi trary and accidental, can be learned only by habitude and conversation: fuch are the forms of falutation, the different gradations of reverence, and all the adjuftments of place and precedence. Thefe, however, may be often violated without offence, if it be fufficiently evident, that neither malice nor pride contribute to the failure; but will not atone, however rigidly obferved, for the tumour of infolence, or petulance of contempt.

I have, indeed, not found among any part of mankind, lefs real and rational complaifance, than among those who have paffed their time in paying and receiving vifits, in frequenting publick entertainments, in ftudying the exact measures of ceremony, and in watching all the variations of fashionable courtesy.

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Try pherus is a man remarkable for Splendour and expence; a man that, having been originally placed by his fortune and rank in the firft clafs of the community, has acquired that air of dignity and that readiness in the exchange of compliments, which courts, balls, and Jevees, eafly confer.

But Trypherus, without any fettled purposes of malignity, partly by his ignorance of human nature, and partly by the habit of contemplating with great fatisfaction his own grandeur and riches, is hourly giving difguft to thofe whom chance or expectation fubject to his vanity.

To a man whofe fortune confines him to a fmall houfe, he declaims upon the pleasure of fpacious apartments, and the convenience of changing his lodgingroom in different parts of the year; tells him, that he hates confinement; and concludes, that if his chamber was lefs, he fhould never wake without thinking of a prison.

To Eucretas, a man of birth equal to himself, but of much less estate, he fhewed his fervices of plate, and remarked that fuch things were, indeed, nothing better than coftly trifles, but that no man muft pretend to the rank of a gentleman without them; and that for

his part, if his eftate was smaller, he fhould not think of enjoying but encreafing it, and would enquire out a trade for his eldest fon.

He has, in imitation of fome more acute obferver than himself, collected a great many fhifts and artifices by which poverty is concealed; and among the ladies of fmall fortune, never fails to talk of frippery and flight filks, and the convenience of a general mourning.

I have been infulted a thousand times with a catalogue of his pictures, his jewels, and his rarities, which, though he knows the humble neatness of my habitation, he feldom fails to conclude by a declaration, that wherever he fees a houfe meanly furnished, he despises the owner's tafte, or pities his poverty.

This, Mr. Rambler, is the practice of Trypherus, by which he is become the terror of all who are lefs wealthy than himself, and has raised innumerable enemies without rivalry, and without malevolence.

Yet though all are not equally culpable with Trypherus, it is fcarcely poffible to find any man who does not frequently, like him, indulge his own pride by forcing others into a comparison with himself, when he knows the advantage is on his fide, without confidering, that unneceffarily to obtrude unpleafing ideas, is a fpecies of oppreffion; and that it is little more criminal to deprive another of fome real advantage, than to inter rupt that forgetfulness of it's abfence which is the next happiness to actual poffeffion. I am, &c.

EUTROPIUS.

N° XCIX. TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 26, 17512

SCILICET INGENIIS ALIQUA EST CONCORDIA JUNCTIS,

ET SERVAT STUDII FOEDERA QUISQUE SUI;
RUSTICUS AGRICOĻAM, MILES FERA BELLA GERENTEM,
RECTOREM DUBIE NAVITA PUPPIS AMAT.

OVID.

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CONGENIAL PASSIONS SOULS TOGETHER BIND,
AND EV'RY CALLING MINGLES WITH IT'S KIND;
SOLDIER UNITES WITH SOLDIER, SWAIN WITH SWAIN,
THE MARINER WITH HIM THAT ROVES THE MAIN.

T has been ordained by Providence, for the confervation of order in the immenfe variety of nature, and for the egular propagation of the feveral claffes

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gentle and domestick animals which naturally unite into companies, or cohabit by pairs, fhould continue faithful to their fpecies; but even thofe ravenous and ferocious favages, which Ariftotle obferves never to be gregarious, fhould range mountains and deferts in fearch of one another, rather than pollute the world with a monstrous birth

As the perpetuity and diftinction of the lower tribes of the creation require that they fhould be determined to proper mates by fome uniform motive of choice, or fome cogent principle of inftinet; it is neceffary likewise, that man, whofe wider capacity demands more gratifications, and who feels in himself innumerable wants, which a life of folitude cannot fupply, and innumerable powers to which it cannot give employment, fhould be led to fuitable companions by particular influence; and mong many beings of the fame nature with himself, he may felect fome for intimacy and tenderness, and improve the condition of his existence, by fuperadding friendship to humanity, and the love of individuals to that of the fpecies.

Other animals are fo formed, that they seem to contribute very little to the happiness of each other, and know nèither joy, nor grief, nor love, nor hatred, but as they are urged by fome defire immediately fubfervient either to the fupport of their own lives, or to the continuation of their race; they therefore feldom appear to regard any of the minuter difcriminations which distinguish creatures of the fame kind from one another.

But if man were to feel no incentives to kindness, more than his general tendency to congenial nature, Babylon or London, with all their multitudes, would have to him the desolation of a wildernefs; his affections, not compreffed into a narrower compafs, would vanifh, like elemental fire, in boundless evaporation; he would languish in perpetual infenfibility; and though he might, perhaps, in the first vigour of youth, amuse himself with the fresh enjoyments of life, yet, when curiofity fhould ceafe, and alacrity fubfide, he would abandon himfelf to the fluctuations of chance, without expecting help against any calamity, or feeling any wish for the happiness of others.

as it includes a general habit of benevolence, and readiness of occafional kindness; but to love all equally is impoffible, at leaft impoffible without the extinction of thofe paffions which now produce all our pains and all our pleafures; without the difufe, if not the abolition, of fome of our faculties, and the fuppreffion of all our hopes and fears in apathy and indifference.

The neceffities of our condition require a thoufand offices of tenderness, which mere regard for the fpecies will never dictate. Every man has frequent grievances which only the folicitude of friendship will difcover and remedy, and which would remain for ever unheeded in the mighty heap of human calamity, were it only furveyed by the eye of general benevolence, equally attentive to every misery.

The great community of mankind is, therefore, neceffarily broken into fmaller independent focieties; these form diftinct interests, which are too fiequently oppofed to each other, and which they who have entered into the league of particular governments falfely think it virtue to promote, however deftructive to the happiness of the reit of the world.

Such unions are again feparated into fubordinate claffes and combinations, and focial life is perpetually branched out into minuter fubdivifions, till it terminates in the last ramifications of private friendship.

That friendship may at once be fond and lafting, it has been already observed in thefe papers, that a conformity of inclinations is neceffary. No man can have much kindness for him by whom he doth not believe himself esteemed, and nothing fo evidently proves esteem as imitation.

That benevolence is always stronge which arifes from participation of the fame pleafures, fince we are naturally moft willing to revive in our minds the memory of perfons with whom the idea of enjoyment is connected.

It is commonly, therefore, to little purpofe, that any one endeavours to ingratiate himself with fuch as he cannot accompany in their amusements and diverfions. Men have been known to rife to favour and to fortune, only by being skilful in the sports with which their patron hap To love all men is our duty, fo far pened to be delighted, by concurring

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with his tafte for fome particular species of curiofities, by relishing the same wine, or applauding the fame cookery.

Even thofe whom wifdom or virtue have placed above regard to fuch petty recommendations, muft nevertheless be gained by fimilitude of manners. The highest and nobleft enjoyment of familiar life, the communication of knowledge and reciprocation of fentiments, must always prefuppofe a difpofition to the fame inquiry, and delight in the fame difcoveries.

With what fatisfaction could the politician lay his fchemes for the reformation of laws, or his comparisons of different forms of government, before the chemift, who has never accustomed his thoughts to any other object than falt and fulphur? or how could the aftronomer, in explaining his calculations and conjectures, endure the coldness of a grammarian, who would lofe fight of Jupiter and all his fatellites, for a happy etymology of an obfcure word, or a better explication of a controverted line? Every man loves merit of the fame kind with his own, when it is not likely to hinder his advancement or his reputation; for he not only beft undertands the worth of thofe qualities which he labours to cultivate, or the usefulnefs of the art which he practifes with fuccefs, but always feels a reflected pleature from the praifes which, though given to another, belong equally to himfelf.

There is indeed no need of research and refinement to difcover that men muft generally felect their companions from their own ftate of life, fince there are not many minds furnifhed for great variety of converfation, or adapted to

multiplicity of intellectual entertains

ments.

The failor, the academick, the law. yer, the mechanick, and the courtier, have all a caft of talk peculiar to their own fraternity, have fixed their attention upon the fame events, have been engaged in affairs of the fame fort, and make ufe of allusions and illustrations which themfelves only can understand.

To be infected with the jargon of a particular profeffion, and to know only the language of a fingle rank of mortals, is indeed fufficiently defpicable. But as limits must be always fet to the excurfions of the human mind, there will be fome ftudy which every man more zealously profecutes, fome darling fubject on which he is principally pleafed to converfe; and he that can most inform or best understand him, will certainly be welcomed with particular regard.

Such partiality is not wholly to be avoided; nor is it culpable, unless fuffered fo far to predominate as to produce averfion from every other kind of excellence, and to fhade the luftre of diffimilar virtues. Those, therefore, whom the lot of life has conjoined, fhould endeavour conftantly to approach towards the inclination of each other, invigorate every motion of concurrent defire, and fan every spark of kindred curiofity.

It has been justly observed, that discord generally operates in little things; it is inflamed to it's utmost vehemence by contrariety of taste, oftener than of principles; and might therefore commonly be avoided by innocent conformity, which, if it was not at first the motive, ought always to be the confequence of indissoluble union,

No Ci

N° C. SATURDAY, MARCH 2, 1751.

DMNE VAFER VITIUM RIDENTI FLACCUS AMICO
TANGIT, ET ADMISSUS CIRCUM PRÆCORDIA LUDIT.

PERSIUS.

HORACE, WITH SLY INSINUATING GRACE,
LAUGH'D AT HIS FRIEND, AND LOOK'D HIM IN THE FACE;
WOULD RAISE A BLUSH WHERE SECRET VICE HE FOUND,
AND TICKLE WHILE HE GENTLY PROB'D THE WOUND.
WITH SEEMING INNOCENCE THE CROWD BEGUIL'D;
BUT MADE THE DESPERATE PASSES, WHEN HE SMIL'D.

BIR,

TO THE RAMBLER.

S very many well-difpofed perfons,

DRYDEN.

paffing day after day, week after weck, and year after year, without the heavy affistance of any one thing that formal creatures are pleafed to call useful and

A by the unavoidable neceflity of neceffary.

their affairs, are fo unfortunate as to be totally buried in the country, where they labour under the moft deplorable ignorance of what is tranfacting among -the polite part of mankind; I cannot help thinking that, as a publick writer, you fhould take the cafe of thefe truly compaffionate objects under your confideration.

Thefe unhappy languishers in obfcurity fhould be furnished with fuch accounts of the employments of people of the world, as may engage them in their feveral remote corners to a laudable imitation; or, at least, fo far inform and prepare them, that if by any joyful change of fituation they fhould be fuddenly transported into the gay fcene, they may not gape, and wonder, and ftare, and be utterly at a lofs how to behave and make a proper appearance in it.

It is inconceivable how much the welfare of all the country towns in the kingdam might be promoted, if you would ufe your charitable endeavours to raise in them a noble emulation of the manners and cuftoms of higher life.

For this purpofe you fhould give a very clear and ample defcription of the whole fet of polite acquirements; a complete hiftory of forms, fashions, frolicks, of routes, drums, hurricanes, balls, affemblies, ridottos, masquerades, auctions, plays, operas, puppet-shows, and bear-gardens; of all thofe delights which profitably engage the attention of the moft fublime characters, and by which they have brought to fuch amazing perfection the whole art and mystery of

In giving due inftructions through what fteps to attain this fummit of human excellence, you may add fuch irrefiftible arguments in it's favour, as mult convince numbers, who in other inftances do not feem to want natural understanding, of the unaccountable error of fuppofing they were fent into the world for any other purpose but to flutter, sport, and thine. For, after all, nothing can be clearer than that an everlasting round of diverfion, and the more lively and hurrying the better, is the most important end of human life.

It is really prodigious, fo much as the world is improved, that there should in thefe days be perfons fo ignorant and ftupid as to think it neceffary to mispend their time, and trouble their heads, about any thing clfe than purfuing the prefent fancy; for what elfe is worth living for?

It is time enough furely to think of confequences when they come; and as for the antiquated notions of duty, they' are not to be met with in any French novel, or any book one ever looks into, but derived almoft wholly from the writings of authors who lived a vast many ages ago, and who, as they were totally without any idea of thofe accomplishments which now characterife people of diftin&tion, have been for fome time finking apace into utter contempt, It does not appear that even their most zealous admirers, for fome partitans of his own fort every writer will have, can pretend to fay they were ever at one ridotto.

In the important article of diverfions, the ceremonial of vifits, the extatick delight of unfriendly intimacies and unFf2

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